“I didn’t have time to write a short letter, so I wrote a long one instead.” – Mark Twain
I think I would have to describe these past months of editing and downsizing into our one-bedroom apartment as rather epic. Harrowing would be too dramatic a description, but at times? Maybe just a bit…
But, now that we are close enough to calling it done, I’ve discovered an ironic byproduct.
Space.
We purged and edited and cut away whatever could be deemed excess so that we could fit it all into our new little world, and somehow, in spite of the much tighter footprint, we’ve actually discovered extra room. This is not the kind of room that can be measured in square footage, but rather, creative space and the time to use it.
There is freedom within an imposed structure, whether that structure is a haiku, sonnet, an hour of video reduced to a two-minute video, a tightly-worded article or a lifetime worth of accumulation cut to fit much smaller living quarters.
When I first started travel writing, I wrote a lot of 500-word travel stories for our local newspaper. It was generally understood that I could turn in something close to the required count. It would, after all, be edited. But I loved the challenge of nailing it at exactly 500 (I also hated it when someone would randomly cut a sentence). Instead, I would clip and cut and dig out the superfluous words until bam! I’d hit the mark…a very fine feeling indeed.
I brought that same technique to this move. For instance, I have kept shoes that were ‘perfectly serviceable’, even though they were not looking quite as sharp as they looked a decade ago. Same story on some items of clothing and a myriad of other kitchen and living room items.
During this downsizing, I created my new gold standard question. I’d hold up the item in question and say to myself, “Would you buy this in a second hand store?” Embarrassingly, a lot of my stuff didn’t survive that question. Yes, sometimes it was clothing that could keep someone warm or dry (and so it could still be donated) but did I actually feel good in it?
Uh. Nope. It was good enough but not exactly great.
As a result of this ruthless (and still ongoing) editing, I now have less clothes but more to wear (all that dodgy stuff was hanging there, pretending that they were outfit options…not!) I have fewer shoes and more usable footwear. Less square footage but more room to do nothing but think.
In short, we live in a much smaller home, but there’s no maintenance, and an entire city is our living room.
It’s taken time to get to this point. It has not been without its, shall we say, ‘moments’. But like any good edit, there is satisfaction from the effort.
I’m liking this new edited life. I’m liking it a lot.
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You are truly an inspiration! It is the classic realization that the more space you have, the more things you need to fill it! Whether it is a purse, an apartment or a house! We truly have so many items that are likely there for comfort or a rainy day; but likely will never get used! I try to purge items when I buy something new, but I realize there are still too much stuff! Thanks for letting us live vicariously through you and reminding us about the importance of the Buddha principle! Only have what you need!
Ah Laurie, thanks for your vote of confidence on the Buddha principle, but you haven’t seen my scarf collection! It’s the thing taking up the entire top shelf my closet. Not quite Buddha-like in that regard 🙂 The scarf issue aside (and I assure it is an ongoing issue!), I do feel an large increase in the space/time available to me. Now. If I could just come up with the ultimate scarf storage system, I’d be golden!
Colleen, this is amazing. My husband and I downsized a great deal years and years ago when we lived in a one bedroom apartment in Portland, Oregon. Although I went through periods of mourning my house and the things, it was such a freer, simpler, liberated way of living. It left a lot of time to live and be, and that’s exactly what I needed at that time in my life.
Angie, there really is a period of mourning isn’t there? It seemed to come in circular waves. I’d think that I was totally okay with letting something go and then a little time would pass and there it would be again. I decided to just feel and be with whatever it was and let it pass through.
I really do feel a sense of liberation.
Sounds like true freedom. Congratulations on the move!
Thanks Michele. It really feels like it’s working. I love all that’s available in this city 🙂