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  1. Irene Butler
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    Heartwarming article Colleen…the key word being “heart”. To me home is where my heart is, which means being with my husband Rick, whether in our cozy condo (where we love our routines) or somewhere in the world for six months of every year (where we relish the lack of routine). Home is also our annual visits with our 5 sons and their families – in succession – since they live right across Canada. What a fabulously gifted lives we live in Canada, to have such wonderful homes, and for those of us with wanderlust, to be able to experience homes abroad.

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  2. Judy
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    Hi Again Colleen. When you responded to Lori about creating the mountains etc. Therein lies the key for me. One’s life perception does not have to come always from the ‘outside in’ but rather from the ‘inside’ out. For me it’s a balancing act with emphasis on the latter. So the most profound home feelings arrive I guess when the two meet. I wonder what the gypsies would think?

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  3. Judy Walls
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    Fun reading all the comments and your very insightful and responsive responses. Kinda like the Anne Landers of Travel! But you are a better writer.

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  4. Martha
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    We’ve lived in the same house for 43 years, renovated twice and I’m very familiar with the house and garden, so it’s definitely home. However, if we’re on a golf holiday in Phoenix, Tucson, or the Okanagan, that’s also home. If I can put on my slippers, cook my own dinner and make a pot of soup, then I’m home.

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  5. Lori Henry
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    Especially coming home to the international terminal of YVR… I feel the exact same way and I sometimes do point things out to visitors or start a conversation just so I can talk about how stunning it is here! I’m like a proud mama bragging about her children. 🙂

    I’ll let you know when the CBC interview airs. It was really long, so that part of it might easily be cut out, but my response was that home is wherever I am that I feel comfortable and alive and connected. On deeper thought, however, I just don’t think that’s true.

    I’m glad you get my unexpected conclusion!

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  6. Lori Henry
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    Great question, and one I was just asked on a CBC radio interview! Now that I’ve had time to think about it, I have quite a different answer. 🙂 The question was in reference to a quote I used in my book, ending with, “Your body is your location – when you dance, you are profoundly engaged in being there.” So, as a frequent traveller, what does that mean? Where is your “location”? Where is home?

    At first thought, home is wherever I am connected to my self, whether that’s a physical place or not. But the more I think about it, no matter how much I feel at home somewhere, that doesn’t make it home for me. Home is here on west coast of B.C., where my family is, where I grew up, where I dance and have close relationships with the community, where I choose to live in between trips. This is HOME and the rest of the world, even in places that I feel connected to, are places that I can see myself making life, but I don’t. I make a life here. At home.

    A totally unexpected conclusion.

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  7. Catherine Clarke
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    Home is where the heart is but sometimes you can get disconnected. France was home to me when I lived with my parents and had family connections. You can live in familiar surrounding where your things are and call it home. I can empathise with the traveller who felt like a snail being pulled off a rock before travelling. You can get very attached to a place because it represents security and familiar surroundings. I can also call home a place or a landscape which”speaks” to me, in which you feel comfortable, like a “déjà vu”.
    Nice to see you are enjoying the delicious French cuisine !

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  8. Laurie
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    All good points!
    I have moved a few times and when I do,
    feel excited and anxious until I put my owm
    personal touches into my new home.
    A home to me is where you create a safe haven
    to relax in at the end of a hard day!
    I am considering moving again and this question
    has been at the forefront for me daily:
    Firstly, what am I doing?!
    As I have created a beautiful haven,
    And what can I do to create a new beautiful nest?

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  9. Anne-Sophie
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    Loved this post.

    Home for me really is anywhere in the world I feel comfortable in. I felt at home in NYC, LA, Bali, Germany and my most favorite place in the world the South of France, Saint Tropez. I guess it all has to do with memories and special experiences. I basically grew up in Fance during the summers and LA and NY presented some of the best adventures I had in my life. As long as I am having a great time, I am at home. 🙂

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  10. Becca
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    I am so much of a homebody – I’ve lived in one town and only three different houses for my entire life. Besides the obvious need for family and friends, to feel truly at home I know I need familiar surroundings – my “stuff” is pretty important to me. And I need to have some history with a place, I think, to have spent enough time there to have lived life in it.

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  11. Barb Rees
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    Funny thing Colleen, I’ve heard those same words. We have RV’ed around Canada extensively 4 times in 9 years and anywhere we stop where I feel comfortable and safe, is home as long as we have our cozy RV and each other. For 4 months every 2 years, home is on 4 wheels but as excited as I get to leave,about 2 weeks before we get home to Powell River I am equally excited to be going “home.” Even tho home is a simple mobile home in a park, nothing fancy, it’s the best place on earth. Could it be because everything that is familiar is there? I love my simple home but oh my, I love being at home on the road too.

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  12. Cory
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    Habitual tasks are a major part of what makes me feel at home. It can be unpacking a bag into a hotel wardrobe, scrubbing the toilet or filling the dinner pot with water from the stream beside my tent. With out this “dominance” of space I tend to feel a guest, less comfortable, less in control. Family, friends and the nearby coffee shop are not much different. People and places that are familiar increase confidence in the “space”, less things unknown- more knowledge/support more comfortable, more control.
    Our lives are a series of routines that only increase in “emulsification” with age and we can blend them up with diversions of holiday, vacation -career change or altered life plans but when the power goes out everything settles a similar recipe of habitual routines that make us who we are and keep us alive because we know no different.

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  13. ruth kozak
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    From my experience of living in Greece I relate to what you say. I actully feel so much at home there (even when I’m just visiting now) that I do consider it to my ‘other’ home. I feel at home pretty well everywhere I go and always find it hard to leave. Yes, home is where you heart is. That’s true. (and I never get as homesick for my ‘real’ home as I do for the one I had in Greece.

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  14. Judy
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    Great article Colleen. You look like everyone’s dream of the ‘beautiful people! Happy is so good and uplifting to see.
    Home for me requires familiar surroundings (have been there for about 3 days at least). Also always need to find ‘my person’ nearby ie coffee shop or neighbourhood. A like soul with whom to connect even if only for valuable fleeting moments. It’s really great on those rare occasions when a new friendship actually buds and grows. Hey, hold onto the thought about the world and oyster. You are one of the few of us who holds the key. Hi to Kevin. Looking good as well

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